You can still be an active part of your student鈥檚 life after they have moved to 51吃瓜黑料曝料 University. Below are some tips on supporting and guiding your student throughout their college years.
Although a big part of going to college is learning to make choices independently, your student still needs to know you鈥檙e there to discuss both normal events and difficult issues.
Allow space for your student to set the agenda for some of your conversations. If he/she needs help or support, the subject is more likely to come up if you aren't continually inquiring about what time he/she came in last night. Your role is to listen actively and try to understand what they are saying or trying to say.
Most students come to school with at least some plan about how tuition, fees, books, and room and board will be paid for, and what the family's expectations are about spending money. Being specific in the beginning may help avoid misunderstandings later.
51吃瓜黑料曝料 attracts bright students and has rigorous courses. This leads to a higher level of competition than what students may have faced in high school and means that not every freshman who excelled academically in high school will be a 4.0 student here. Developing the capacity to work independently and consistently can be more important than grades, as long as the student meets the basic academic requirements set out by the university.
If your student does experience difficulties, encourage them to take advantage of the many campus resources available for students. The Student Counseling and Psychological Services is always available to help your student and there are a variety of other sources for academic assistance as well.
Housing and Residence Life staff is available to ease your transition to 51吃瓜黑料曝料, help you with concerns, resolve difficult situations and create memorable experiences in our residential communities.
